Best Strapless Strap-On Dildos for Pegging
The word's in. Pegging is trending. The last five years have shown a dramatic rise in the sales of prostate massagers, strap-ons and other tantalizing butt stuff tools. If you haven’t jumped in, you’re missing out.
With references in cultural media like Broad City and Deadpool, pegging has become visible as a form of play that can bring explosive pleasure. Missed the memo? We’ve got you covered. Below we’ll brief you on the what, the why and the how of the hot art of pegging.
What is pegging?
Coined in 2001 by sex columnist Dan Savage, pegging is traditionally defined as the anal penetration of a cis-male by a cis-female with a strap-on. This definition has evolved to be more inclusive.
What defines pegging now is the use of a strap-on for anal penetration, regardless of the genders involved. Pegging can not only be seen as a sexy reversal of gender roles, it can also be used to throw out gender roles period.
Despite the stigma that can exist around it, pegging has nothing to do with your sexual orientation. It’s a potential way of accessing more pleasure.
Why should you try pegging? For those with prostates, pegging can lead to mind-blowing orgasms. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland that sits between a male-bodied person’s penis and anus. Located a few inches inside the rectum, the prostate is packed with nerve endings.
For those without prostates or “P-spot”, pegging allows for the stimulation of the thousands of sensitive nerve endings found inside the anal canal and entrance.
The giver, the person donning the strap-on, is in for a feel good time as well. The base can feel good rubbing against the clitoris or pubic mound while thrusting. You can also get creative like adding a vibrating dildo for extra stimulation and fun.
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What's so great about using a strap-on?
The benefits of pegging can also be emotional and psychological. For most heterosexual couples, the male traditionally holds the role of dominant and of being the penetrator. With pegging, these roles can be reversed which can be very sexy.
Many female-bodied people are aroused by the idea of taking on the dominant role. They can also explore being a submissive penetrator by letting the receiver ride them. This can be a unique experience for both parties.
Pegging can also lead to increased intimacy. Penetration is often a very intimate, vulnerable experience. Different genders can experience what it feels like to be a receiver or a giver. A variety of positions can be explored.
For those of us who are lesbians, a strap-on dildo for lesbian sex is not a stranger. Strap-ons have been used to achieve an experience that was once reserved for the heterosexual or cis-male focused relationships. The trans community has also been able to use the strap-on to express their gender identity.
Prostate and anal orgasms.
What do prostate and anal orgasms feel like? Some describe prostate orgasms as the ultimate orgasms, allowing them to access a full body experience.
Basically, it can be seen as the female-bodied equivalent of the G-spot. When stimulated, this sensitive gland can be the source of lots of pleasure and, frequently, the male-bodied can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone.
For those without a P-spot? You don’t need a prostate to enjoy anal penetration. Inside the anal canal, there are thousands of nerve endings. After that initial push, you’ll have access to stimulate the A-spot. The A-spot or the anterior fornix erogenous zone. The A-spot is found two inches from the G-spot. The difference is each spot needs different types of stimulation.
With anal penetration, you can indirectly stimulate the A-spot, leading to intense full-body orgasms.
Things You Should Pay Attention to When Shopping for a Pegging Strap-On.
Ready to strap up? We’re glad to hear it! To get started, you need a few basics: a harness, dildos for pegging, and lube, lots of lube. A good harness is durable, fits great, feels empowering, and makes you feel hot! Here are some things to consider when choosing your new best friends.
Type/Style
Dildo harnesses come in a variety of styles and types. When choosing one, you want to make sure it meets your needs, your partner’s needs, and makes you feel like a rockstar.
There are four primary styles of harnesses: jock-style, underwear, g-string, and even body harnesses! You can also buy the dildo and harness separately or a strap-on set. The strap-on set includes the harness and dildo together. You also have the option of using a strapless dildo style!
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If you’re a beginner, we recommend getting a strap-on set which will often have guides and some instructions.
Jock-style: The jock-style harnesses have two adjustable straps that you can wrap around each butt cheek. This style allows for a lot of control when maneuvering the dildo. This style is especially recommended for beginners because of how secure the hold of the harness feels.
Underwear style: The underwear style harnesses are brief or boxer brief style underwear. It’s important to have a snug fit with these as they aren’t adjustable
G-string style: G-string style or one-strap harnesses have one adjustable strap that runs between the butt cheeks. The advantage of this style is the ability to feel the weight and movement of the pegging dildos being used. You can also use their hands to move the dildo to increase the pleasure, if you’re the wearer.
Body harness: The body harness style comes in a variety of materials and can be worn around the hand, thigh, chest, or other body part like the face. This is a great choice for those with hip or back pain.
Strapless pegging is a popular option if you want to be free of straps and just enjoy the ride. Just note that most strapless strap-ons are designed for vaginas.
Size
Strap ons are just like with any piece of clothing, it’s important to get the right size harness for your body. Before ordering your new harness it’s a good idea to use a measuring tape to measure the size of your hips and/or any body part you plan to wear your harness on.
Use a measuring tape to measure the circumference of your hips and/or other body parts and compare to the sizing chart available on the site you’re ordering from.
Material
Materials like nylon and neoprene are waterproof and very easy to clean and maintain. They also tend to be stretchy and conform to the shape of the body. Harnesses made of leather require a more delicate touch, but are durable and will last longer. They also often come with a lifetime warranty.
For those who prefer to steer away from animal products, there are vegan leather harnesses that are usually made of rubber that have a similar look and durability to that of leather.
Comfort
Make sure the harness you choose feels good to your body. You want to have a harness that feels secure, but without feeling restrictive or constricting. When you’re done enjoying your harness be sure to only loosen the straps that need to be loosened to remove the harness so you save time the next time you strap up!
Pegging is a way to explore your sexuality and engage with your partner is a fun, creative way. If pegging is something you’re curious about, you're in for a full body experience that can change the way you sex and open up a whole new world of intimacy and pleasure. And, who doesn’t want that?
