Pocket Pussy 101: Your Ultimate Guide to Hands-Free Fun
What is a pocket pussy?
A pocket pussy is a portable masturbation sleeve that feels and sometimes looks like a vagina. It contains a soft sleeve that can be penetrated, and can provide a more exciting orgasm than using your hand. It’s a generic term for any male stroker that has an orifice resembling a vagina, anus, or mouth, but also comes in less realistic versions. Essentially, there’s one for every desire, preference, and budget!
With soft, textured interiors, using one is the perfect way to up your masturbation routine, including during foreplay with a partner, or use them as a form of stamina training. If you don’t already own one, you may want to reconsider. Here’s everything you need to know about pocket pussies.
How to use a pocket pussy
1. Choose your sleeve. Pay attention to the size and dimensions of the stroker to ensure it suits your needs and works with your anatomy.
2. Apply lube. Use water-based lube to prevent discomfort and protect the toy material.
3. Although it’s optional, you can warm it up. For a more realistic experience, immerse the sleeve in warm water or purchase a sleeve warmer designed specifically for this purpose.
4. Gently insert the penis. Slowly slide inside the toy, letting the texture stimulate you.
5. Adjust pressure and experiment with motions: For sleeves with a hard outer case or closed ends, squeezing the body gently increases pressure. Some models also have suction adjustment caps that you can tighten for more suction. Next, play around with what motions feel good, varying speed, depth, and angle of thrusts.
6. Edge or finish. You can use your sleeve for a quickie or edge yourself multiple times. Edging can help with stamina training and create a more explosive climax.
7. Clean after each use. Do so with toy cleaner or gentle soap and warm water. Scroll down for a more detailed guide on how to clean this pleasure product.
What are the best pocket pussies on the market?
While we’ve covered some of our favorite Fleshlights that are bestsellers, many other pocket pussies are equally effective and popular. Whether you’re looking for the most realistic version possible, a little something extra to hold onto, or a budget model, we’ve got something for you.
Spread Eagle Sally Masturbator
M for Men - Soft and Wet - Pussy with Pleasure Orbs - Self Lubricating Stroker Cup
The holy grail of pocket pussies, this toy is self-lubricating (though ther’s no harm in adding a little extra lube) and textures with nubs, ridges, and pleasure orbs. It features adjustable suction via an air valve and has a hard case that can be squeezed for added pressure.
Loving Joy Real Feel Male Masturbator
If you’re on a budget or just trying out your first realistic stroker, this under £17 option is a great choice. It has a realistic look and feel, internal ribbing, and a soft exterior allowing you to customise pressure and grip easily.
Signature Strokers - Eva Elfie - ULTRASKYN Pocket Pussy
Ever wonder what it would be like to sleep with a porn star? Satisfy your curiosity and more with this affordable yet lifelike stroker modeled after Eva Elfie that warms to the touch.
Pocket pussy vs hand
Rather than spending cash on one of these sex toys or putting in the time-consuming effort to make a DIY pocket pussy, is it worth it to just use your hand? Since they offer completely different sensations, it’s hard to compare the two. Your hand is familiar and reliable. You’ve probably been using it to pleasure yourself for years and have mastered how to make yourself orgasm. Using your hand gives you the ultimate precision and minimal cleanup.
Using pocket pussies might take a bit of trial and error in terms of learning how to use them, what lube works best, and discovering what sensations or pressures you enjoy. However, many find that it’s worth it. It can offer new sensations, feel more immersive, and mimic vaginal, oral, or anal sex. Don’t think of these masturbators as replacing your hand. Think of it as adding another tool to your sexual routine to help spice things up, explore, add some novelty, and experience a different kind of pleasure.
Pocket pussy vs fleshlight
A pocket pussy is a generic term for any masturbation sleeve, whereas a Fleshlight is a specific brand. The Fleshlight is known for its hard exterior sleeve that, with its lid on, looks like a flashlight and houses a soft inner sleeve to penetrate. It’s considered one of the most hygienic and discreet options on the market, but also has a higher price point than some are willing to pay. If you’re a beginner or are looking for a cheap pocket pussy that’s still high-quality and competitive with the Fleshlight, sextoys.co.uk has lots of exciting options to browse.
Fleshlight Girls - Lana Rhoades - Destiny
Kiiroo Feel Britney Amber Stroker
Realistic vs. non-realistic options
While some get turned on just thinking about the fantasy of an anatomically correct stroker complete with a vagina, anus, testicles, or even a torso and breasts, others prefer a less literal approach to pleasure. A realistic fake pussy is sometimes molded from adult performers is designed to mimic the look and texture of anatomy with tightness and internal textures.
Non-realistic designs focus on a more discreet appearance and don’t try to simulate a human being. Instead, they focus on sensation and might include abstract shapes, vibrant colors, or a futuristic look. This might be preferred if you are a penis owner looking to be stimulated in a creative way without using a toy that mimics a human. There are even alien and creature strokers to fulfill more niche fantasies.
This plush reptile pussy has scaly skin and a soft green hue, letting you have the lizard or dragon princess of your dreams.
If you want to focus on sensations over looks, this stroker vibrates and sucks with a transparent sleeve that lets you watch all the action.
Close-ended vs open-ended models
The two major types are closed-ended and open-ended. These refer to the back of the stroker. A closed-ended toy has only a single opening in the front and a closed-off or sealed back. Open-ended masturbators have both an opening in the front and in the back. A closed-ended pocket pussy is often better for maximum stimulation since it generates more pressure and a sucking sensation. An open-ended sleeve might be better for larger penises as you can pump them up and down your entire shaft. They’re also easier to clean and dry.
Always use lube
No matter which type of stroker you use, there’s one non-negotiable: using water-based lubricant. This will preserve the quality of your toy while ensuring your session is as comfortable as possible. It reduces friction and creates a more realistic sensation. If you use less lube, there will be more friction, and it may feel tighter. More lube can feel looser but offer a smoother feel. Experiment to see what amount you prefer.
Using a warming, cooling, or tingling lube can add another layer of sensation into the mix and allow you to explore temperature play, but be sure that the formula is water-based.
From a safety perspective, lube protects the toy from tears or damage, extending its longevity.
Go hands-free with accessories and DIY techniques
A hands-free accessory can take your session to the next level. Using a mount, case, or hands-free toy holder can help you apply consistent pressure without your hand getting tired. Some of these are even compatible with VR porn for a more realistic experience.
If you’re not quite ready to invest in an accessory, wrap a fabric or towel around the sleeve before inserting it between couch cushions for hands-free fun.
Two-in-One Toys
There are many multifunctional pocket pussies on the market. Although one of the most popular ones are dual entry options that mimic both vaginal and anal entry, there’s also a unique 2-in-1 extender and masturbator that’s one of our bestsellers. This toy, designed for partnered use, allows you to experience the lengthening or girth-enhancing benefits of a penis extender but provides an equally pleasurable experience for the wearer, who gets to slide into a stimulating, textured sleeve as their penetrate their partner.
The Great Extender 2-in-1 Extender and Masturbator
Benefits of using a pocket pussy
Lots of variety
There are many different brands, shapes, sizes, and aesthetics to choose from. No matter your fantasy, you can find one that will suit you. And if you want to build a collection with a range of features (including full-torso options that resemble sex dolls), you can feel free to do so!
Stamina training to help your erection last longer
Many pocket pussies feature adjustable tightness/suction, but even if they don’t most of them can be used for endurance or stamina training if you’re looking to last longer in the bedroom.
Better orgasms
Some people report that using one of these sex toys feels even better than the real thing! Even if you disagree, the sensation is certainly different. Each sleeve has ribbing, pleasure orbs, and other nooks and crannies that provide a completely unique type of stimulation.
Couple play
Strokers get a bad rap for being used only by lonely guys. In reality, this tool can be used for couple play, either during foreplay, a mutual masturbation session, or in long-distance relationships.
They can be discreet
While some of these devices are anatomically correct, many come with lids and are just as discreet as Fleshlights or have a non-realistic aesthetic that doesn’t look like a tool for pleasure.
How to clean a pocket pussy
Cleaning your toy after every use is absolutely essential for your health and the toy’s longevity. If you don’t take the following measures, you may damage your toy and need to replace it. You might also give yourself a bacterial infection. At the very least, your toys will start to collect a not-so-nice smell, which isn’t exactly sexy. To keep things safe, functional, and enjoyable, follow the following steps:
- Rinse immediately after use. Use warm water to flush out fluids and/or lubricant. If it has an open end, let the water run through the canal. If it is a closed sleeve, fill it with warm water, shake it vigorously, and then rinse again.
- Next, wash it more thoroughly with mild soap or toy cleaner. Even if you prefer to use a toy cleaning spray or foam, we suggest using soap at least once in a while for a more thorough clean. Gently rub the soap or cleaner along the interior and exterior of the toy. Using fingers or a soft sponge is fine, but don’t use anything abrasive.
- Rinse again, ensuring all soap or toy cleaner has been fully removed.
- Dry your toy thoroughly. You can let it air dry inside out or purchase a drying stand. Toys like the Tenga Flip include a built-in stand. This step is vital but sometimes skipped, and it’s a big mistake. Moisture leads to mildew and bacteria. Let your toy air dry in a cool and well-ventilated spot. You can place a small fan in front of it or over it to speed up the process.
- Apply renewal powder to keep the inner material of your stroker as soft as possible. Lightly dust the inside and outside of the toy.
- Store it in a clean, dry pouch or case.
Common pocket pussy mistakes
Don’t clean your toy in boiling water unless the manufacturer specifies that it’s ok. Additionally, don’t use alcohol or bleach-based cleaners. Never store your toy while it’s damp, and don’t ever skip cleaning — even if you’re tempted. Another common mistake is using the wrong lube. Using anything other than water-based lube, which is the safest option, can lead to material degradation over time. Don’t share your toy without protection like a condom or sanitizing between uses, and finally, don’t be too rough with it, as overly aggressive thrusting might tear the sleeve.
Are Pocket Pussies Worth It? Final Thoughts
If you're curious about exploring new sensations, improving your stamina, or simply shaking up your routine, this sex toy for penis havers can be a smart and satisfying investment. With options available for every budget and experience level, there’s no reason not to spice up your routine with one. Masturbation is a form of self-care, and these toys can deepen your understanding of pleasure while helping you explore your needs and desires. Take your pleasure into your hands (literally) and try something new
