With  BookTok and Bookstagram, readers have begun linking their favourite fantasy-novel imagery (think demons, dragons, and tentacles) with their favourite pleasure products. Today, fantasy erotica and role-play are merging with toy culture like never before thanks to fantasy dildo options on the market that are moulded after mythical creatures. 

This signals a cultural shift; pleasure isn’t bound to realism anymore, and storytelling has become a new tool in the bedroom that many singles and couples are embracing. With this shift, each sex toy becomes part of a bigger narrative where you’re not just the author. You’re the main character, and you get to choose exactly what happens in this spicy, otherworldly story. Here’s everything you need to know. 

What is a fantasy dildo and why are they so popular? 

 Escapism can play a major role in sexual desire; toys like this allow you to step out of the real world and into the pages of a fantasy book or the scene of a fantasy TV show to explore something alluring and mythical.

Aesthetics like scales, tentacles, horns and new shapes are anything but ordinary – they ignite playful curiosity and conversation, and also look great on a bedside shelf or table. Whether your thing is a dragon dildo, a demon dildo, or a tentacle sex toy that brings you into the deep sea with your fantasies, these these mythical toys not only look magically monstrous but are also uniquely designed. A fantasy dildo or sex toy might also offer new shapes and textures to explore and hit all your erogenous zones. 

Even for people who aren’t immersed in a fantasy world, they’re also a fnatastic option for anyone who doesn’t want to be penetrated by a realistic phallus or queer vulva owners looking to enjoy each other.

What to look for when you buy a fantasy dildo 

While aesthetic definitely plays a role, the material of a dragon dildo or fantasy dildo is important. Medical-grade silicone is one of the best options, and the easiest for sex toy makers to get creative with. Its non-porous, minimizes germ and bacteria build-up, and is easy to clean. It may double as a vibrator, offering double the pleasure. There are also medical-grade glass and metal options if you want to explore temperature play. Another feature to consider is a suction cup if you’re interested in hands-free play. Suction cups allow you to indulge in your fantasy in the shower, against a wall, placed on a chair or even on the floor (just make sure its clean!)

Creature Cocks - Dragon Glass Glass Dildo

This stunning metallic glass dildo is a work of art that’s responsive to body heat.

Most sextoys.co.uk dildos are harness compatible, meaning you can combine your fantasy experience with strap on play. Size is another important factor you want to consider before buying. While you might love the appearance of a larger-than-life monster dildo to take you by storm, if you’re less experienced, you may want to start with something a bit smaller and less girthy. 

Remember that texture is just as important as size, if not more: even if you’re a beginner, a textured surface on a smaller-sized dildo or vibrators can be incredibly generous when it’s generously lubed up. Internal nubs and ridges and massage and stimulate nerve-dense tissues more than a smooth toy or a hand might. Some toys even have a rabbit extension to stimulate the clitoris while accessing the G-spot, allowing for a blended orgasm.  As with any toy, trial and error is essential to discover what works for you and what doesn’t!

Rave Dragon G

A lightly textured and waterproofed G-spot toy with gentle dragon ridges.

Creature Cocks - Demon Rising Scaly Dragon Silicone Dildo

A scaly red and black dildo that can be used for demon fantasies, dragon fantasies, and everything in between.

Creature Cocks - Cockness Monster Lake Creature Silicone Dildo

Complete with a realistic dragon head, this gorgeous green monstrosity doubles as a work of art.

Creature Cocks - Lord Kraken Tentacled Silicone Dildo

Into some tentacle play? This twisted spiral toy has a firm, flexible core and a soft, squishy outside for a dual density feel.

How to use a fantasy dildo and creature toys  in the bedroom 

Before you entertain the idea of inserting or using a fantasy-themed sex toy with a partner, discuss it with them and ensure it’s something that they feel comfortable with. Feel free to introduce it in a space outside of the bedroom and discuss how you might want to explore role play with it, and outline what types of scenes you may want to dive into.

Even if there isn’t a BDSM element involved, fantasy scenes can get intense. Remember to warm up with foreplay and establish consent, safe words and non-verbal cues before the scene starts. If you’re using these toys for solo play, feel free to enjoy some visual or audio erotica that helps you get in the fantasy mindset – open that link, set the ambiance in your room (and even dress up if you want!) before your session. Exploring fantasy through role play can be incredibly empowering, whether you’re on your own or with a lover!

Safety and hygiene tips

We briefly touched on the importance of choosing body-safe materials, but there are some other safety tips you should remember. Always clean toys thoroughly after use, either with warm water and gentle soap or a designated sex toy cleaner like a spray or foam. Since these toys are more textured and have more nooks and crannies, it’s vital to clean them immediately after use, dry them completely, and then store them in a cool, dry place.

Using a soft brush like a soft-bristled toothbrush can help you reach the more detailed textured of a dragon dildo or tentacle dildo.  If the toy does have a suction cup or flared base, always check for stability before your playtime, especially if you plan on using it against a wall, floor, or in the shower. Always keep surfaces clean and dry to prevent slipping accidents. 

Additionally, because fantasy toys often have more intricate and textured designs, you should also use a thick water-based lube on silicone toys to enhance comfort and help your body warm up. 

Non penetrative fantasy sex toys 

If you’re not yet ready for dildos or simply aren’t interested in penetration, keep in mind that not every fantasy has to go deep. Sometimes, the experience can be all about sensation and texture during external play, which is inclusive for all bodies and comfort levels.

Non-penetrative toys can bring you mythical daydreams to life without the need for insertion, making them beginner-friendly and ideal for those with sensitive bodies who are still seeking sensory exploration. 

Creature-inspired vibrators, rings, plugs and stroker sleeves 

If you want to enjoy the fantasy dildo aesthetic – without the dildo – we’ve got plenty of toys to help you do that. 

Plugs 

If you’re solely interested in anal penetration but don’t want to use a dildo, there are several egg-shaped, fantasy butt plugs with similar benefits like suction cup bases, scaly textures, and the same aesthetic appeal.

Eye of the Dragon Silicone Butt Plug

Stroker sleeves 

Whether you’ve been dreaming of penetrating a sexy werewolf, an alien, a dragon or a reptilian creature’s nether regions, there’s no shortage of creature strokers to elevate your solo play or integrate into partnered play for an immersive experience.

Creature Cocks - Snow She-Wolf Silicone Stroker

Creature Cocks - Serpentine Stroker Silicone Masturbator

Raptor Reptile Stroker

Cyclone Squishy Alien Vagina Stroker 

Rings 

One of the most compact and beginner-friendly forms of fantasy play for penis owners is to invest in a themed cock ring like this plush and stretchy Rise of the Dragon Silicone Cock Ring. It can be paired with other fnatasy toys and allow you to stay harder for longer to maximise your role play session.

Rise of the Dragon Silicone Cock Ring

Vibrators and grinder pads 

No penetration? No problem! While these toys are great for people with vulvas, they can also be used on a variety of erogenous zones and will brighten up your sex toy collection to look much more exciting. Some toys, like the vibrating tentacle vibrator below, have an approachable girth and then you explore both internal and external play.

Vulvaron Vibrating Silicone Grinder

Temptasia Enchanted Serpent

Tentacle Tickler

Pairing with a creature lube 

Creature Cocks Creature Slime - Creature Cum Lubricant

Looking to make you role play as realistic as possible? Ditch the regular lube and invest in some creepy ‘creature cum’ lube that’s thick, gooey, and water-based so its compatible with any creature dildo or toy you might use but still has that ‘slimy’ texture that lets you immerse yourself in the scene. 

Exploring fantasy ideas through role play 

Role play gives your imagination permission to run wild and lets you embody characters you’ve only read about. While you can absolutely take inspiration from a TV show or movie scene (or the pages of a fantasy novel as many fans on BookTok do), if you don’t have anything specific in mind, there are a few role play scenarios that you can explore. Common ones include a princess and rescuer dynamic (which also allows you to explore power dynamics), a human meeting a creature from another planet.

First, set the ambiance. Decorate your room so it resembles the fantasy world you’re looking to immerse yourself in. This might be a fiery dragon lair, another planet, or a mysterious underwater kingdom. Using the right lighting, costumes, makeup, and music.

• Consider pairing a dragon dildo with a lace-up corset or cloak for a “captured byt he dragon” storyline

• Combine a tentacle sex toy with an oceanic soundtrack and dim blue lighting for a deep-sea siren fantasy

• Dress up in a skin-tight, neon green jumpsuit with alien makeup and integrate alien strokers or tentacle vibrators  into foreplay

Also, a friendly reminder that role play doesn’t have to involve partners! During solo play, read a spicy chapter aloud during foreplay or wear accessories like claws and horns that help you get into character. Stay curious and let the fantasy take you where it may!

Dropping the stigma around fantasy dildos and sex toys 

Fantasy has always been a part of human desire. Now, thanks to social media and more open conversations about sexuality, people are findally giving themselves permission to talk more openly about it. However, some people still feel embarrassed about wanting to explore a non-traditional fantasy whether that means using a dragon dildo, a demon dildo, or a tentacle sex toy.

 But the truth is that fantasy is simply a creative expression of curiosity and pleasure. Your fantasies don’t mean you actually want to get captured by a monster or seduced by an alien (though we totally get it if you do). It’s about stepping into a world where you can safely let go of control and inhibitions. In a culture that often ties our sexuality to shame, fantasy play is a radical act of self-acceptance that acknowledges you deserve pleasure and unapologetically get to define what turns you on. 

Using a fantasy dildo or sex toy is all about wrapping yourself in otherworldly textures and sensations. Creature strokers and fantasy-inspired dildos turn sex and masturbation into a full-blown adventure As the adult market continues to grow, the fantasy dildo and sex toy genre will play a major role in shaping the future of sexual wellness and exploration, so what are you waiting for?