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How to prepare your space for Masturbation May and have the best orgasms ever


Dress the room to romance yourself this Masturbation May

Romance yourself this Masturbation May! Unlock all the feel-good vibes and relaxation benefits of a good self-care sesh by setting the scene. Just like setting the mood for a romantic evening or a cozy night in, creating the right ambiance can enhance your masturbation experiences. In this guide, we'll explore how to dress your room to cultivate a comfortable, sensual, and inviting space for self-pleasure. Fall in love with yourself, babes!

Declutter and Cleanse.

Before diving into self-pleasure, start by tidying up your space. Clear away any clutter or distractions that might disrupt your focus or relaxation. A clean environment can help clear your mind and create a sense of tranquility, allowing you to fully immerse yourself in the moment. Prepare your toys by cleansing with a body-safe cleaner, and get the correct lube lined up for the materials of your chosen toys. Plus, the right massage oils can make your skin feel super soft to touch, elevating your masturbation from a quick wank to a truly mindful and sensual experience. Don't forget to charge your fav toy the night before so you're not stuck going accoustic!

Take a hot bath or shower to really relax into the moment, and try out our various lotions and potions to make the experience truly sensual, like this pheremone-infused bubble bath - it's a win for solo play, or for inviting someone in with you. Win-win.


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Set the Lighting

Lighting can play a crucial role in setting the mood for masturbation. Opt for soft, dim lighting to create a cozy and intimate atmosphere. Consider using candles, string lights, or a dimmer switch to adjust the brightness to your preference. Avoid harsh overhead lighting, as it can feel too clinical or harsh. Why not go the whole mile and prepare a candlelit dinner for yourself?

Choose Comfortable Bedding

Your choice of bedding can significantly impact your comfort and enjoyment during masturbation. Select soft, luxurious sheets and pillows that invite you to sink into relaxation. Experiment with different textures and fabrics to find what feels most pleasurable against your skin (you may even unlock a sensation kink, silk throws, anyone?) Cover your bed with a water-resitant throw and scatter some cute cushions like this heart pillow to hepl you find exciting new positions to try masturbating in. Variety is the spice of life, after all! 


Bedroom Bliss Love Heart Pillow

Love heart pillow


Create Sensory Ambiance

Engage all your senses to enhance the sensory experience of masturbation. Play soothing music or ambient sounds to set the mood and drown out any background noise. Incorporate pleasant scents through candles, essential oils, or incense to awaken your sense of smell and evoke relaxation.

Incorporate Sensual Decor

Personalize your space with sensual decor that ignites your imagination and arouses your senses. Hang sensual artwork, display erotic literature, or incorporate plush textures and fabrics that feel sensual to the touch. Surround yourself with objects that evoke pleasure and desire, whether it's a favorite sex toy, a silky robe, or a plush blanket.


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Set the Scene

Consider creating a fantasy scenario or role-playing scenario to fuel your erotic imagination. Use props, costumes, or erotic literature to set the scene and immerse yourself fully in the experience. Let go of inhibitions and allow yourself to indulge in your deepest fantasies and desires.

Dressing your room for masturbation is all about creating a space that feels comfortable, sensual, and inviting. By decluttering, setting the right lighting, choosing comfortable bedding, engaging your senses, incorporating sensual decor, and setting the scene, you can enhance your solo intimate experiences and explore your sexuality with confidence and pleasure. Remember, there are no rules when it comes to self-pleasure—trust your instincts and enjoy the journey of self-discovery and pleasure.

Swap up your fav toys

Using the same toy over and over can get you stuck in a bit of a rut, so why not explore the different orgasms you can achieve and browse our wide selection of various toys? Expand into exploration of th sensations you already life, for example ff you are a little used to your bullet vibe, switch it out for a clit sucker. Keep things exciting and you'll be reaching climaxes you never knew possible!


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