Tag Archives: kink

Kim Kardashian’s sex toys: what do celebrities keep by their bed?

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I confess to not knowing much about Kim Kardashian. My knowledge of pop culture could be written in the margins of a single page of Heat Magazine, and there’d still be enough room left for a shopping list. But strangely, although I know very little about the rest of her life, I do know the […]

Christmas gifts for the people on your ‘naughty’ list

Roll up, roll up! It’s nearly Christmas! And although I don’t have the budget of John Lewis, or the ability to cover pop songs in an achingly twee voice, I absolutely do have the ability to recommend you some top sex toys from this site which make excellent Christmas gifts. Naturally I can only cover […]

Bondage harnesses: what are they and how do you use them?

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A bondage harness is a wearable piece of BDSM equipment – essentially like kinky lingerie, that can be used to enhance your sex play. Usually made of leather straps connected by metal rings, and worn around the torso and crotch, though sometimes the materials can differ. If you’re not into leather you might want to […]

Intro to dungeons: the Berkley Horse, St Andrew’s Cross & other BDSM equipment

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If you’ve been following our blog for a while, you’ll know that we’re currently blogging on the theme of all things bondage and BDSM. From erotic spanking equipment to invest in through bondage safety tips, to a few ideas for interesting rope ties you can use in your sexy play. But what if you want […]

Kink curious: what are sleepsacks and vacuum beds?

Image of a vacuum cleaner on a carpet

What are sleep sacks and vacuum beds? Both of these things are designed to touch on the same kink: that of being bound and restricted tightly in latex. But how do they work and what’s the kinky appeal? Join me in exploring this unique and intense kink! When SexToys asked me to write about these […]

Bondage positions: hogtie, overarm tie and more

Bound to Please 10 m Bondage Rope Hemp

Regular readers will know that we’ve been on a bit of a bondage spree recently. I don’t mean we’ve tied up the boss so we can nip down to the pub, rather we’ve been giving an overview of some key bondage-focused topics here on the blog: from different ways to use physical restraints through fetish […]

Fetish fashion: what to wear when you’re feeling kinky

Walking into a fetish club for the first time can be quite intimidating, especially if there’s a dress code. One of the things I found most nervewracking when I started going to fetish clubs were the dress codes with ‘NO STREET CLOTHES’ written in all capital letters. I’m not great at following fashion at the […]

Erotic spanking: whips, floggers, paddles and how to use them

How do you know when you’re kinky? For me, it’s the shivery sensation I get when I hear a whip, flogger, paddle or hand come down – smack – on someone’s bum. For others, it’s the noise of a cane whistling through the air before landing with a crack, or the similar-yet-subtly-differently whoosh of a […]

Popular bondage gear (and tips on how to use it!)

What should you pick to restrain someone with – cuffs, tape or rope? How do you use nipple clamps safely? What the hell is a Wartenberg wheel, and why does it look so scary? Today I’m going to give you a brief run-down of some of the most popular bondage gear on this here site, […]

Sex swing top tips, positions, assembly and more!

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The first time I ever encountered a sex swing was, poetically, inside a swingers club. A woman was lying in it being attended to by a group of eager gentlemen, and having an absolute whale of a time. But while you might think of sex swings as something you need a big budget – or […]