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Using bondage to de-stress

Playing with different types of bondage and restraint can add all sorts of extra fire and naughtiness to your sex life, and it can also be good for your health! Being restrained, unable to do anything at all, can actually help you to surrender into deep relaxation!


If your partner is feeling particularly overworked, stressed or wound up by the daily grind, then get out the ropes, tape or handcuffs and treat them to some kinky de-stressing. Discuss how it will work best for both of you, any boundaries either of you might have and when you are ready, tie them up. You could restrain just their wrists and ankles, tie them to a bed or chair or wrap their whole body up with rope and knots. You could even infuse each knot with something they wish to let go of – a particular issue or problem they’ve been wrestling with. As you untie each knot later, remind them that they are releasing ‘the knots which bind them’.

Once they’re tied up, you put on some relaxing music and treat them to some soft sensual stroking or whisper sweet nothings in their ear. Make sure they are warm and comfortable. Help them to unwind and let go of stress and worry. Between your loving treatment and the ropes or cuffs stopping their movement, they will have to surrender and relax.

 

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