Want to add a little excitement to your sex life? Then keep your clothes on! Might sound crazy at first, but actually it helps to build anticipation. Don’t be in a rush to get to the naked skin, tempt and tease your lover over their clothes first. You could start with some slow dancing, pressing your bodies together, and moving your hips. Feel the heat of each other’s bodies through your clothes. Notice the contours of your lover’s body as you stroke him or her. Kiss or stroke your lover’s neck, just under the collar. Let your fingers explore little gaps where the shirt tucks in or spaces in between buttons. A consensual sneaky hand under your clothes can feel really erotic! Let your hips thrust together as if you were actually having sex and see how hot and bothered you get! Unbutton or unzip tops and trousers but don’t remove them straight away. Take them off very slowly, only revealing a tiny bit of skin at a time. Stroke, kiss or lick each area as it’s exposed. Take your time. You can simulate oral sex over knickers or pants for a sexy twist. Rather than taking your panties completely off, just pull them over for a ‘I’ve-got-to-have-you-now’ feeling. Be playful, have fun and see how keeping your clothes on can turn up the heat!