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What do you wear to feel sexy?

When I was young I loved dressing up in typical sexy clothes. You know the stuff – black and red corsets, stockings, garter belts, high heels, etc. However, I could only bring myself to buy black or red and wouldn’t be seen in white or any other colour for that matter. Not sure why, but I was under the impression that only black and red were sexy and other colours didn’t count or feel as good to wear. Eventually I moved on to explore textures – rubber, leather, PVC, latex – but always in black or red.


Many years later, chatting with a friend about sex and what we found sexy, she asked why I only wore black or red ‘sexy’ clothes. I thought about it and realized I didn’t have a good answer. Probably I’d picked up the message from my dad’s Playboys or from the soft porn that was around when I was a teenager. (This was in the olden days before the Internet!)

As an experiment, we went off to a sex shop to look at their range of sexy clothes. For the first time in my life, I could see how a navy blue policewoman’s outfit or pink bra and panty set could be super hot! Suddenly a whole new world of colourful sexiness opened up. I bought a white (yes, white!) nurses outfit that was one of the sexiest outfits I’ve ever owned and it has never failed to turn heads.

Many more years later I got together with my current partner. Early on in our relationship I asked him what sort of bedroom wear he liked. He thought about it long and hard and then said, ‘The sexiest thing you could wear would be a giant over sized jumper. That way I can sneak my hands up inside and feel you, your curves and textures’.  I was shocked, amazed and also knew that I’d found my soul mate!

There are lots of ways to dress to feel sexy. Black and red suspenders and bras are still super sexy and so are white panties and oversized jumpers. I know quite a few men that love to see a woman in stripey socks and others that prefer a woman in her birthday suit and nothing else. If you tend to wear the same things over and over, try looking at sexy clothing with new eyes and see if you can’t find something a little different that appeals. Try a new colour, a new texture or a new fantasy role play costume. You might just open up a whole new world of saucy possibilities!

 

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