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Set your Sexual Intentions for this New Year!

How many times have you made New Year’s Resolutions and by the second week of January totally forgotten about them? If you’re like me you’ve done that a thousand times at least!  (Ok, maybe not a thousand times, but a heck of a lot!)


What I prefer to do these days is set my ‘intentions for the New Year’ rather than create ‘resolutions’. Resolutions feel like something I have to ‘make’ happen and when I don’t, I’ve somehow failed. Intentions are more like planting seeds and nurturing them gently to see what unfolds.

With that in mind, I invite you to set your sexual intentions for the New Year. If you are in a relationship, you can set personal intentions and relationship intentions too.

Some questions you might want to consider include:

How would you like your sex life to be during this new year?

How do you want to feel about your sexual self?

How are you going to express that out to the world?

Would you like more time on your own to explore your own body and pleasures or would you like to draw to you an amazing lover with which to journey into ecstasy?

Would you like to add to your toy collection?

Is there something new, sexually, that you’d like to try?

What new experiences would you like to have?

Would you like to try BDSM for the first time?

Are you curious about anal play?

Would you like more romance in your life?

You might have something specific in mind or just know generally what direction you’d like your sex life to go in this new year. Once you know what your intentions are, creating your own ritual to help bring them into the world will help focus you on this path. For instance, you might like to light a candle, sit quietly for a while and when you’re ready, state each of your intentions out loud. You could write each intention on a piece of paper and one by one throw them into a fire to be released into the ether. You could say them to your partner and have them tell you their intentions. Whatever way you choose to set your intentions, make sure that it feels right for you.

Once the year gets going, check in with yourself and the intentions you set. Are they starting to develop? You can set and reset your intentions at any time. It could be that as things start to unfold you get clearer about what you really want. That’s fine, just restate your new intentions. You will be amazed as the year goes on how your intentions start to come to life!

I’d love to hear your sexual intentions for 2012. Please feel free to email them to me at Rebecca@sextoys.co.uk.

Happy New Year!

 

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