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Focus on breasts and nipples…

Breasts and nipples are very sexy, erogenous zones to explore. Some people can even orgasm just by having these areas stimulated! Sacred eastern sexual practices have always known that there is an energy channel that runs from the nipples to the genitals in both men and women. A study published in August 2010 showed this to be true. Researchers tested men and women in MRI scanners stimulating their own genitals, breasts and nipples and found that the same areas of the brain ‘lit up’ for each of them. So East and West agree, when our breasts and nipples are stimulated, we feel it in our genitals!


So how do you get the most out of your breast & nipple play? Take some time to experiment and see what you like. You can do this on your own or with a partner. Explore breasts and nipples as part of a sacred, honouring ritual, as part of your every day sex play or as a separate ‘getting to know your breasts’ adventure! Any breast or nipple play applies to people of all genders. Everyone will like different things on different days, so remember to take it slow and always ask permission for something new.

Begin by placing your hands over your or your partner’s breasts, cupping them, holding them. It doesn’t matter how big or small they are, hold them in a nurturing, comforting way. Feel the shape and texture of them. If you’re dong this for a partner, encourage them to take some slow deep breaths. Notice how your breasts react to being held. Notice if other areas of your body come alive or feel stimulated.

Using plenty of lube or oil, massage the breasts using both hands in a ‘one after the other’ motion, gently stroking each breast, including but not yet concentrating on the nipples. Focus on one breast at a time. Stroke from the outer edge of the breast in towards the nipple, moving all around the breast. Start with light pressure and then get firmer. See what you or your partner likes. After a few minutes of this, use your thumbs to make a ‘pinwheel’ shape, starting at the centre of the nipples and moving out towards the edges of the breasts in all directions. You can also place the palm of your hand over your partners nipple with your palm and fingers spread wide, then with a firm but gentle squeeze, pull the breast upwards as your fingers come together at the nipple. You can end that move with as much of a squeeze on the nipple as your partner likes. It’s always best to build up pressure over a few moves rather than go straight in with a pinch. Check in with your partner and if they like it, you can pull, pinch or squeeze a bit harder with each successive stroke.

Don’t forget to use your mouth. Lick, suck, kiss, nibble and bite all around the breast and especially the nipples. See what you enjoy offering and what your partner enjoys receiving. Try licking or sucking on the nipple for a minute and then blowing gently over the wetness. It’s sure to raise the excitement and increase arousal! Breasts also lend themselves beautifully to all sorts of yummy food play. Try licking chocolate, whipped cream or any other treat you fancy off your partner’s breasts.

Whether using your hands or your mouth, you can drive your partner wild by spending some time just stimulating the breast tissue, teasing but narrowly missing the nipple for a while. Stroke and massage right up to the edge of the nipple but leave them wanting more. This will heighten the sensitivity of the nipple so when you finally do give it some attention it will feel like absolute heaven!

Depending on the mood and desires of the person on the receiving end, you could also play with different sensations. Try stroking the breasts and nipples with feathers (you will need to do this before you apply any oil), hot wax, ice or even a wartenberg wheel. If you’re up for it, try some light impact play. Use something like a small rubber whip rather than a harder, heavier flogger. You can also combine these sensations with nipple clamps, or breast bondage.

If you’re playing with clamps, make sure to put them on to the full nipple, rather than just the tip as that will not feel good and the clamp will probably pop off. Place the clamp just where the nipple edge meets the breast. Most importantly remember that it is the quick return of blood flow when the clamps come off that causes the most sensation and potential pain. There are lots of different clamps to try. If you’re a beginner star with something like these Tweezer Nipple Clamps. If you want to try deeper sensations, try these adjustable clamps so that you can increase or decrease the pressure as you please. If you want to crank the sensations up another notch, try these vibrating nipple clamps.

Breast bondage is often more about the look than the sensation, but if you are playing for sensation, be sure you’re playing safely. If blood flow is too restricted you could cause unwanted pain or damage. If the breasts change temperature or become discoloured, untie the breasts immediately. Make sure you have some safety scissors to hand as well.

Remember breast and nipple tissue can be tender and delicate. Some people will like harder sensations than others. For some, gentle stroking, squeezing and kissing will be enough. Others will like having their nipples pulled, scratched or pinched hard. When you’ve finished your play or exploration, make sure to return to cupping and holding the breasts lovingly. Soothe and kiss them with love and gratitude for the pleasure you’ve experienced. Take your time to get to know your own and your partners breasts and nipples and over time you will be able to add all sorts of juicy new fun to your sexual escapades!

 

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