Summer lovin’ is over and the Autumn chill is in the air. As the season’s change we can often find so does our mind!
The chaos of the summer holidays is over, there are no more weddings to go to, the days are grey and we are looking towards Christmas, a time of togetherness. So it’s no wonder that Autumn seems to be the most popular time for couples to break up.
Though sometimes a break up is much needed, you don’t want to fall foul of post summer depression. Sometimes all your relationship needs is a little TLC to get you through the transition.
When it’s cold outside it can be hard to drag yourself out the house, so why not bring the party indoors. Use this dreary time to bond with your partner by cosying up in the bedroom and getting hot, hot, hot!
Turn your bedroom into a heavenly place you’ll both want to hibernate in. De clutter, light the candles and spray your sheets with a gorgeous scent.
Warm things up with an erotic massage using warming massage oils. Alternatively try a massage candle, light and drizzle the warm wax on your partner’s body and watch it melt into succulent oil.
Make a list of things you’ve always wanted to try in bed but haven’t got round to. Have you always fancied a bit of light bondage? Wanted to give anal a try? Or what about roleplay? Use the colder months to make your way through the list so you always have something to look forward to.
Take time to remember all the things you love about your partner’s body and relish each and every bit with a special gesture.
If you’re partner likes to stay in and watch movies, why not surprise them with some porn or a raunchy sex education DVD?
There are many ways to increase intimacy and ease the chill of the Winter months. And if you can make it through the most trying time of year, it bodes well for a happy ever after!