How To Use A Dildo

Dildos are some of the most popular and well known female sex toys. These sex toys have been around for ages, people have even found dildos in various painting form Ancient Egypt around 3000 BCE.

Dildos are often phallic in appearance, although non-phallic dildos are very popular these days. Dildos are designed for sexual penetration during solo masturbation or with a partner.

In this adult toy guide we briefly explain how to use a dildo, along with some of the different types of dildos that we sell. If you are yet to buy a dildo, why not take a look at our guide to the best dildos, to help you choose the right one for you! Here are some of our current favorite dildos:

Ways To Use A Dildo

Dildos are primarily designed for sexual penetration, this can be during foreplay, solo masturbation, or with your partner. Dildos are very easy to use, and this is mainly thanks to their design. They are usually similar in shape and size to male genitalia, meaning that they are designed to be inserted.

Many techniques can be put into practice when using your dildo. But before you jump into using your sex toy you need to make sure you are in the mood! So set your perfect scene, maybe try dimming the lights and putting on some soft music. Get yourself aroused by playing with your nipples, stroking your inner thigh or massaging your clitoris.

When you are aroused apply some lubricant to your intimate areas and the dildo. Once the dildo has been lubricated you can then slowly insert it. Then pull it out to create a thrusting motion. If you have a suction cup dildo then you can attach it to a flat surface like the floor or even a wall. If you have done this then you will have to move yourself, instead of using your hand to move the dildo.

Below is a short list of some of our preferred ways of using a dildo:

Deep Thrusting:

This technique is very straight forward to do, simply lubricate the dildo and then insert the complete length of the dildo into your vagina. This can provide intense stimulation to your sensitive areas, especially if the dildo is textured. If this is a technique that you like the sound of then we recommend a firmer dildo, something like the Loving Joy 6 Inch Silicone Dildo would be perfect for this because of the different ridges and textures that it has on it.

Shallow Penetration:

Many of the most sensitive nerve endings are in the first third of the vagina. This means that the shallow thrusting method can create some incredible sensations during your solo masturbation sessions. To perform this technique simply insert the tip of the dildo and then pull it out. Try increasing the speed and doing short but rapid strokes for the best feeling. To get the most out of this technique using a textured dildo is recommend. A very good glass dildo for this method is the Spectrum Nubby Textured Glass Dildo. If you don’t like the idea of using a glass sex toy then we recommend using the Loving Joy Realistic Dildo with Suction Cup and Balls

G-Spot Thrusting:

Finding your G-Spot can be a magical experience. Massaging your g-spot correctly lead to the person experiencing female ejaculation. If this is something that interests you then take a look at our guide ‘sex toys that make you squirt‘.

To do this technique you simply need to drag the top part of the dildo across your g-spot and move it back and fourth. In order to make this easier there is a huge range of g-spot dildos, that have been specifically designed to apply pressure to your g-spot. A brilliant dildo for this is the Spectrum Ribbed G Spot Dildo. This is a glass dildo that features a slight curve at one end. The firmness of the glass means that you can apply a large amount of pressure to your g-spot that will drive you wild! If you don’t want to use a glass dildo then we recommend trying out the Loving Joy Curved 5 Inch Silicone Dildo with Suction Cup. This is a slimline dildo with a curved tip, making it great for beginners!

Temperature Play:

Temperature play can bring a whole new experience to your sex toy play. You can use any technique when doing this, but the trick is to get your dildo to the desired temperature. To do this simply leave it in a bowl of cool or warm water depending on what you like. You can pretty much use any glass, metal or silicone dildo to achieve this.

A dildo that we recommend is the Spectrum Ribbed Glass Dildo. This glass dildo also features a slight curve to the shaft, meaning that you can caress your g-spot easily with it.

Anal:

Anal dildos are a type of dildo that are designed specifically for anal penetration. They are great for people who like anal sex or even for those who want to try it. We stock a huge range of anal dildos, but the best one to recommend is the Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Anal Starter Dildo 6 Inch-Purple.

If you have any more questions on how to use a dildo then please feel free to contact us and one of our sex toy experts will get back to you as soon as they can!