The traditional ‘tie and tease’ is a great way to try something new and extremely erotic with your partner. You don’t have to be into BDSM or any other particular kind of sex to enjoy it either. You can totally tailor it to suit you and your partner desires and interests.
Fantasies are a great way to explore new parts of your sexual self, to add some extra zing or just have fun in the bedroom. Fantasies can be as simple as ‘Having sex outside’ to something more extravagant like ‘I’m a pirate queen and you are my captured slave’. Some fantasies don’t require much preparation and others allow you to get as creative as you like, including creating just the right setting, costumes and props too!
Call me naïve, but I’m always surprised when I hear people tell me that they sometimes fake their orgasms. I mean, I just don’t get it. Why would you do that? Who benefits from that? I’ve heard reasons like, ‘I was bored and wanted to get it over with’, ‘I wanted them to feel good about themselves’ and ‘I didn’t want them to think it was difficult to make me come’.
How many times have you made New Year’s Resolutions and by the second week of January totally forgotten about them? If you’re like me you’ve done that a thousand times at least! (Ok, maybe not a thousand times, but a heck of a lot!)