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I’ve never given a blowjob

Dear Rebecca,


I was married to my childhood sweetheart for 20 years and he would never allow me to give him a blowjob. He was quite shut down sexually and so I never learned how to do it. We divorced recently and I’m now in a new relationship. I’d really love to offer my new man a blowjob, but am just not sure what to do. I’m worried about looking foolish. Can you help?

Thanks,

Kay

Hi Kay,

Thank you for your email. I’d suggest that you talk to your new man about it first. Tell him that you’re new to blowjobs, and that you’d really like to give it a try. Explain that you’re concerned about not knowing what to do and would appreciate his guidance and support.

It would help to get relaxed and a bit turned on yourself before you begin. Find a position where you are both comfortable and spend some time just kissing all over his body, every now and then landing some kisses on his cock and balls. Eventually bring your full attention to his cock. Take it slow and easy at first, getting used to the feel and taste. Offer him some gentle kisses and licks up and down his cock and on his balls too. Take your time and make sure you’re enjoying it as much as he is. If you feel unsure, check in with him. When you feel ready, you can take the tip of his cock in your mouth. This is probably the most sensitive area of his cock so mind your teeth!

Eventually, take more of his cock in your mouth, licking and gently sucking. You don’t have to be able to take the full length in your mouth if it doesn’t feel good to you. Sadly, porn would have us believe that gagging on your man’s cock is something every woman enjoys. This is not the case and you should only take in as much is right for you.

Once you get going, just follow your intuition and his body language. Do what feels good to you and you’ll soon notice what he likes. Most of all, relax and have fun!

With love,

Rebecca

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