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I want my girlfriend to use a strap-on on me

Dear Rebecca,


My girlfriend and I have been together just over a year now and are looking for ways to have more fun in the bedroom. I’d really like her to use a strap-on on me, but she has big reservations about it. I just want to see what it feels like to be penetrated and love the idea of her being in a different role. Is this normal? How can I get her to try it out?

Thanks,

Antonio

Dear Antonio,

Thank you for your email. Strap-on play can be lots of fun and very pleasurable for both people. It’s likely that your girlfriend is used to expressing her sexuality by being the ‘receptive’ person and maybe just hasn’t thought about what it might be like to be in a different role. Talk to her about how good anal penetration feels for you, what it does for you. If she’s up for it, perhaps you could use a dildo on yourself to show her how much you like it. Talk to her about why you’d like her to try it. Maybe the thought of her in a more dominant or potentially powerful role turns you on? She could also use the strap-on on you without needing to be dominant.

If she’s up for trying it, take it slow and easy. Talk about how you might do it the first time. What positions would work for both of you in order to be comfortable and sexy too? Let her try the strap-on on without any expectation at first. Let her get comfortable wearing it and letting you see her with it on. Once she’s got it on she might feel utterly up for it or not at all. Give her the chance to choose for herself. If not the first time she puts it on, perhaps another time.

Wishing you a fun, sexy exploration!

With love,

Rebecca

 

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