Are there any toys we can both use?

Dear Rebecca,

My partner and I are just starting to explore sex toys for the first time and are wondering if there are toys we can use to penetrate both of us?


Ray and Janine




Hi Ray and Janine,

Thank you for your email. How great that you’re starting to explore sex toys together! There certainly are toys you can use to penetrate both of you. If you want something you can use at the same time, you might like to try a double ended dildo or vibrator.  As each of you move, it gives the other pleasure – very juicy and intimate!

If you’re looking more for toys that you can use one at a time, you might like to try a butt plug, anal beads or a small dildo. Since you’re going to be sharing the toys, I’d recommend putting a new condom on the toy each time you use it to avoid cross-contamination and using some toy cleaner when you’re finished. You’ll also want to make sure you have plenty of lubricant to hand.

Wishing you lots of sexy fun together!

With love and delight,



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