Using sex toys alone

Masturbation is a taboo subject, however, a large percentage of the population indulges regularly. If you haven’t yet, you’re missing out on a good thing.

There is nothing shameful or harmful about masturbation, stories of masturbation sending you blind and other such horrid things are just that, stories. Masturbation is a healthy safe and fulfilling thing to do, it gives you a chance to explore your own body, in a safe and healthy environment. There is no chance of getting pregnant or contracting STIs from masturbation, making it the safest form of sex around. Introducing sex toys into your masturbation routine is a great away of discovering what does and doesn’t do it for you, allowing you to become more aware of your body and its needs.

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Choose your toy with care, there is nothing worse than unwrapping your parcel to find something is too big or too small. Lay back and relax, get yourself in the mood by reading an erotic book or whatever ever it is that gets your juices flowing. When you feel ready, lay back and experiment, use your fingers to tease your sensitive areas, making sure you are fully aroused before introducing a toy into the mix.

Next, make sure your toy has the necessary lube and position it to where it feels good. Remember it’s all about you, you are pleasing yourself, and only you, you have no one else to worry about so do what feels right and good, don’t worry how it looks. Vary the pressure and speed, if it vibrates allow yourself time to adjust to the sensations, what may feel initially too intense after a few seconds may settle down and send you to cloud nine. Stop and start as you feel you need to, move around and have fun. Don’t be scared to tease yourself, it’s the only time you have full say over what you experience and there is no shame in dreaming up a fantasy lover and imagining them doing the things to you that you want.

Experiment with other stimulation, visual audio, or just imagination, let your hands explore your body and relax into the sensations and let them guide you. Don’t worry if you orgasm to quickly or find the vibrator numbs you slightly making it difficult to orgasm, next time try things differently, if the vibrations are too intense try gentler settings or perhaps using the toy over a towel or soft material.

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