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Using bondage to de-stress
By Rebecca Monday May 21, 2012
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Playing with different types of bondage and restraint can add all sorts of extra fire and naughtiness to your sex life, and it can also be good for your health! Being restrained, unable to do anything at all, can actually help you to surrender into deep relaxation!
If your partner is feeling particularly overworked, stressed or wound up by the daily grind, then get out the ropes, tape or handcuffs and treat them to some kinky de-stressing. Discuss how it will work best for both of you, any boundaries either of you might have and when you are ready, tie them up. You could restrain just their wrists and ankles, tie them to a bed or chair or wrap their whole body up with rope and knots. You could even infuse each knot with something they wish to let go of – a particular issue or problem they’ve been wrestling with. As you untie each knot later, remind them that they are releasing ‘the knots which bind them’.
Once they’re tied up, you put on some relaxing music and treat them to some soft sensual stroking or whisper sweet nothings in their ear. Make sure they are warm and comfortable. Help them to unwind and let go of stress and worry. Between your loving treatment and the ropes or cuffs stopping their movement, they will have to surrender and relax.
Do something out of the ordinary
By Rebecca Friday April 27, 2012
Many years ago, I had a partner that often stopped at the pub on his way home from work. It was fine at first but after a while it became a habit and started to get in the way of our time together. What I really wanted was some intimate time with him. I tried talking with him about it, but somehow didn’t quite get my point across.
Then one evening, I’d had enough and decided it was time to show him what I meant. I put on the sexiest underwear I owned at the time – busty corset, stockings, lacy thong and very high heels, and threw my overcoat on top. Walking to the tube knowing that I only had underwear under my coat felt so empowering and very, very exciting too!
I got to the pub, (totally aroused, by the way!), found where he was and asked him to step outside with me. He followed and when we got outside, to a very busy road in Soho, I told him I wanted him to come home now. He said ‘Sure, just let me finish my pint’, to which I opened my coat wide and said, ‘No, NOW’. It took him, and some of the folks nearby, a moment to realize that I was standing there in my underwear on show for all to see and I meant business. Once he’d picked his jaw back up off the pavement, he grabbed his coat and off we went. We had a VERY hot night of sex and he started coming home after work!
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