It’s that time of year again

It’s fast closing in on us all, but I can only speak as a man and the truth is, Valentine’s Day really puts the pressure on.  You can’t help feel  obliged to make some grand gesture towards your loved one to keep up with everyone else because no matter how much they claim they don’t [...]

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My Christmas Wishlist

“All I want for Christmas is you”… It’s all well and good saying that, but it’s not really the truth is it? If it was, no one of us would ever get any presents, we’d just be sat there in a sulk, present-less, with our partners watching the EastEnders Christmas special. The festive season is [...]

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My REView of the REV 1000

A couple of months ago, in a restaurant in Kensington, I was handed the lofty task of becoming the first man in the world to conduct a review of a ‘revolutionary’ new male sex toy… the REV 1000.   I was slightly alarmed when the box was handed to me publicly over the table but [...]

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A Confident Woman Is What We Want

Confidence is a key issue when it comes to sex there’s no doubt about that. There are couples who can’t have sex with one another without having the lights off, or at least dimmed – while there are others who happily get stuck into one another over dinner or in the garden. From a male [...]

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One Up The Bum, No Harm Done?

“My arse is one-way mate, stuff comes out but nothing goes in”, “It’s unnatural innit”, “Eurgh, I’m not gay you know!”. These and many other similar statements are likely to be what pops out of a man’s mouth when he’s confronted with the subject of anal stimulation. Of course, it’s only natural for a man [...]

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It’s Not A Reflection On You

It’s safe to say a large majority of couples will, at some point, have had a falling out because the man watches porn, looks at lads mags or masturbates on his own without his partner around – or all of the above. Generally speaking it’s usually because, as I mentioned in my previous blog post, [...]

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Sex toys – a man’s point of view

Whether you’re young or old, for women, the use of a sex aid is almost expected and about as far from taboo as it can be (unless a stranger finds one in your handbag, then it’s red faces all round). But for men, the sex toy market is still a minefield of embarrassment that can [...]

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