Sex & Mischief Spread the Love Bar

Date: (25 September 2011)

This product comes in some of the most stylish packaging I've ever seen on a sex toy, which is always a good indicator of quality. Professional photos of a model wearing the bar and smiling. Nothing intimidating at all and there is even the start of an erotic story on the back. It's what's inside that counts though right?

The bar itself is a semi rigid piece of plastic wrapped in a nylon sheath with four padded, velcro seal cuffs attached to it. The cuffs are nicely padded and comfortable and hold well enough to struggle against, but could easily be removed by the person in them. The cuffs are also a little on the small side. If you have larger wrists then whilst the velcro closures might reach around, the padded part of the cuff won't which is a little uncomfortable when in use. Velcro is scratchy, something sex really shouldn't be.

Then there is the bar. I really wish it had been a little longer. It doesn't so much spread as politely part. I would have liked it to be a little longer or even extendable.

It does however politely part the legs enough so that when your partner bends over and cuffs their wrists into the bar too, they are helpless whilst you have easy access and all the control during sex. Paired with a ball gag it really shines.

Another fun way to use it is to cuff your partners wrists and ankles whilst they lay on their back so that you can use the bar to raise their legs up to their head so you can completely control the depth and speed of penetration. They have to trust you but that's sort of the point with a toy like this.

Overall a cool bit of bondage gear that was well made, stylishly presented, great fun to use and ideal for someone who wants to try out restraints. My only reservation was the size. Everything else was perfect.